I have been smoking off and on for about 30 years. When I married my wife I was not smoking and she swore that she never would smoke herself. On occasion I would start again, each time hiding my pleasure. After a few weeks, sometimes months, I would reluctantly quit again knowing that she would be angry should she realize that I had started again. Butt... (pun intended)
A few months ago I decided to pick up my old habit again and this time I decided not to hide it. I LOVE smoking and always have, honestly since that very first cigarette.
At first most people around me were surprised, including my wife. To my surprise, however, she was not at all upset. In fact, she decided to try one herself one evening when I stepped outside for a smoke. She said that she had always been curious as to the allure but was afraid I would be upset if she ever gave smoking cigarettes a try herself. From that first cigarette I have been mystified watching her smoke. She is the sexiest smoker I have ever seen.
After a few days of sneaking out with me for an evening cigarette... and then a morning cigarette... I found a pack in her purse. Naturally I said nothing but I knew... she had been sneaking a smoke during the day as well. I was thrilled!
Within two weeks she was smoking 2-3 packs a week and hiding it less and less. Now we both proudly smoke our favorite brand of cigarettes (Benson & Hedges Menthal) daily. I love smoking with my wife as it is a wonderful time to relax and talk by ourselves. I am so happy that I decided to quit hiding my habit as it has led to such mutual pleasure.
i've been smoking since i was ten years old my first drag was a benson&hedges menthol light. I knew right then I was a smoker for life!! When I met my wife she was totally anti smoking, in fact she almost left me because I would not quit. after our daughter was born she asked to try it one day, and thats all it took. she loves smoking virginia slims menthol 120s all day everyday. we go through 8 cartons every month and cant wait for the next one.
Try this on for size, if you dare. Increase yalls sexual pleasure. The next time yall do foreplay before sex, smoke a vsml 120 together. Share a cigarette. Inhale the cigarette smoke, then bring your lips close to each other. Blow and have her inhale, next have her do the same for you. Its great.
I love this board.. And I have over the years got at least 5 people to start smoking. Including getting my sister and best friend to start smoking. A non-smoker girl I work with has gone out with me twice in the last week and had a cigarette, after me telling her its a great way to de stress. Will see how it goes. It does feel good to help someone start smoking. I support this boards message fully!
i the same have been in closet for years except my wife knows I do it . I have been frantically trying to get her to start . She will from time to time just to be doing it with me cause she knows i like to watch her smoke but she says she dont like it and dont want to smoke she just does it for me . Wish so badly she would give in and start smoking regulary but I fear she never will . It just makes me feel so good for her to smoke with because it just relaxes me and keeps me leveled out spending that time with her watching her smoke . Dont want to push to hard though . Afraid she will get angry with me pushing and stop all together . Any Help with this matter ?? Thx
I gave this some additional thought. Hope this will help.
We all know how fantastic the first cigarette out of a pack can be, especially if it is your first cigarette of the day. I just opened a fresh pack this morning and smoked that first one a moment ago. It also happened to be my first cigarette today. Glorious. The other nineteen are excellent as well or I wouldn't continue to smoke but I admit that smoking the last one in a pack always has me excited about getting to open a fresh pack soon. Sometimes I get so excited about the prospects that I smoke two in a row just to get that first one from a fresh pack.
Question, when she does smoke with you, does she inhale? If she doesn't you are probably wasting your time hoping that she will one day become a regular smoker.
If she does inhale, perhaps the best thing that you could do is invite her out for a smoke one morning and give her a brand new pack of menthol cigarettes in a brand just for her? I know that several of the ladies that I smoke with at work like Virginia Slims. Only a couple of them smoke a non-Menthol brand. My wife smokes Benson & Hedges Menthol Luxury as I do.
If a fresh menthol cigarette doesn't have her craving more then it is probably a lost cause for you. My bet, she will enjoy it so much that she will have taken her first steps towards years of pleasure smoking with you.
Not sure what kind she occasionally smokes. Go buy her a pack of VS menthol lights 120's. NExt time she goes to smoke with you, give her the pack and ask her to try. Easy to get a woman started on these. Light, elegant, makes her feel sophistocated. Give it a shot
Well as for inhaling . She does inhale most of the cigarette when she smokes with me . i absolutly love smoking and cannot wait till i can have my next one . i smoke marlboro light 100's and when she does smoke i always keep a pack of marlboro light 100 menthols on hand for her because she prefers menthol when she does smoke . Reason I know this is because i always hand her both packs and she always grabs one out of the mentol pack . Been married for 12 years now and she has bought cigarettes at times . Before pregnancy she smoked very briefly 2 or 3 times a week a couple a night at the most and that was the happiest time i can remember sharing that with her . She smoked virginia slim ultra light menthols then . She quit for years and never did it again as far as I know . Last year i went to retrieve something from her car and in the top of her purse there was a fresh pack of marlboro light 100 menthols and a new lighter . Well she said they belonged to a freind and came up missing and i never saw the cigarettes again but the lighter is in the drawer over there in kitchen as we speak . So if she returned the cigs to friend why dittin she return her lighter also ?? it is just a special time for me to spend enjoying something i love so much with that someone i love so much ! i got her to step out to garage with one one morning quiet a while back but never has went for mornin smoke with me again . She goes to smoke with me often but dont partake alot of teh time . I hand her the cigarettes and she just puts them down without smoking . i dont mean to but i get agitated with her when she does that but i never tell her why i am agitated because i don t want to seem forceful if you know what i mean . I want her to do it because she wants to not because she feels like she has to . It is just very stressful for me her not enjoying smoking as i do but she did smoke one with me last night and we had an amazing husband and wife time after if you know what i mean :) and i was so leveled and at peace afterwards . I just wish she could see inside me to see just how special those moments are to me and sharing that pleasure with her . i just keep hoping and praying
I wanted my wife to smoke with me for years, too. As I said, she does now and truly enjoys it. She smokes with her boss at work and I can only imagine that this made the decision easier for her. Her boss is so pleased to have a smoking buddy that she stops by my wife's office on her way out a few times a day. It is always good to be one of the few stepping outside with the boss, even if it is only for a few minutes each day. Perhaps I was just lucky?
It sounds like you are doing all that you can reasonably do to get her to start smoking regularly with you. My advice, keep the Marlboro Menthol Lights 100's on hand and continue to invite her out when you go for your smoke. Don't let the pack get old though. If she hasn't smoked any in a few days then go ahead and smoke them yourself and buy her a new pack. As I said, that first one out of a fresh pack is always the best one. Try not to get agitated with her as that likely hurts her feelings. You want her to smoke because she enjoys it (and she will, you know that) and not because you want her to smoke.
My bet, the cigarette pack you found in her purse was indeed hers. I bet that if you had said nothing she would have smoked them all. It sounds like she is certainly attracted to the idea but is a little nervous about what others might think? Until she sees her way thru that, there is probably nothing that you can do other than continuing to smoke yourself. If she is not asking you to quit AND is having "Special Time" with you after a cigarette I think she will come around in her own time.
Gotta go, my wife just said she is going out for a smoke.
Hello. I'm in a slightly different situation than most of you. I do not smoke but really want to see my gorgeous girlfriend smoke - even if she just does it every now and then. The issue is, she's somewhat anti-smoking and an athlete, so it seems nearly impossible that I could persuade her to try it. She has no idea about my smoking fetish yet. Perhaps telling her about that might spark her interest?
I understand how you feel. I will not date a woman who does not smoke because I have the same fetish. My babysitter got me started smoking when I was 9. She was just 15 at the time. I looked forward to the nights she watched me because we would smoke together. To this day, my parents don't know she is the one who got me started smoking. It was our secret. I'm 33 now and still very close friends with my childhood babysitter. I could never thank her enough for teaching me my bad but pleasurable habit. Tell your girlfriend that smoking isn't as bad as it is portrayed. She can still be healthy and a good athelete even if she smokes.
Well what grt stories,anyway i started smoking when i was 14,now turned 50 and back then smokers could smoke anywhere and i used to go to work with my dad and the women in the office was a smoker and well one day she noticed that i was inhaling her cig smoke while in the ashtray,so the next drag she took she blew smoke in my face and could tell that i was interested in trying one,so the next one she lit she offered it to me to try which at first i made excuses not to,but she said you want to, so try one,so i did,well not a great feeling to be honest but she then kept on making me smoke more of one until she new i was interested for sure.Well that lunch time she suggested that i meet her for lunch outside work,which she told me that i could have a whole cig and if liked it,she would help me to enjoy them if thats what i wanted,so i had to meet her cause by then i was getting excited that an older women wanted to help me start smoking and to be totally honest i am glad she did,cause life without smoking now would totally suck.
I read some good stories of peoples lives involving smoking... Heres mine if your interested. I started sneaking my moms pall malls in 69 I was 6. I would go out to the back yard where I couldent be seen from the house, by myself and light them with a magnifying glass. (sorry for my spelling), They had no filter but they were more fun than getting yelled at. I liked the buzz I got before going back in the house and getting told what to do. It was always like that, clean the toys out from under your bed, make your bed, no you cant go out, and my freinds were always out playing in the neighbor hood. My older brother always seemed to get to go out but Me and my younger sister always had to stay home. My sister knew I snuck cigarettes and she thought it was fun being sneaky, but I never let her try it. it just seemed wrong. Hind sight is 20/20, but my neighbore obveosly had seen me in the yard. I didnt know it then, but found out soon enough. My mom and dad were going out for the weekend to Vegas and I was passed on to our neighbor Ms Layton. My sister was going to stay at Alexes house, another friend of the family. Dont know what Bob did. The neighbor came over and I was told just be good for the weekend and mind. K this is where it gets crazy for me and I have been smoking ever since... As we were walking next door before we got to her front door, she said she had to go to the corner store... So we got into her car and she drove to Express Lanes. From what I remember she said get somthing you want and meet me at the counter. This store was the size of a 7/11. I brought up a mounds candy bar and she looked at me with approval. I set it on the counter and she turnned to the clerk and said...I remember this fully.... Give me a pack of max 120 menthol... Then she looked back down and seemed to glare at me and said, No give me two packs. As we left the store she handed me the bag to carry to the car. I remember this clearly and my whole life has revolved around her and what she let me experiance with her. Im probably boaring some so if your interested in hearing more about this part of my life let me know...
My first 120 menthol was at a fair in Louisiana.I was already a four year smoker of Virginia Slims menthol lights 100 at the time.Then the 120s came out when I was 14, but hadnt tried one yet. I saw a lady pull out a pack of VSML 120s and light up. I walked up and asked if I could try her sexy little cigarette.We walked off and smoked together. I still love my VSML 120s to this very day. Would like to hear more about you and Miss layton
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My Wife Now Smokes, Too
I have been smoking off and on for about 30 years. When I married my wife I was not smoking and she swore that she never would smoke herself. On occasion I would start again, each time hiding my pleasure. After a few weeks, sometimes months, I would reluctantly quit again knowing that she would be angry should she realize that I had started again. Butt... (pun intended)
A few months ago I decided to pick up my old habit again and this time I decided not to hide it. I LOVE smoking and always have, honestly since that very first cigarette.
At first most people around me were surprised, including my wife. To my surprise, however, she was not at all upset. In fact, she decided to try one herself one evening when I stepped outside for a smoke. She said that she had always been curious as to the allure but was afraid I would be upset if she ever gave smoking cigarettes a try herself. From that first cigarette I have been mystified watching her smoke. She is the sexiest smoker I have ever seen.
After a few days of sneaking out with me for an evening cigarette... and then a morning cigarette... I found a pack in her purse. Naturally I said nothing but I knew... she had been sneaking a smoke during the day as well. I was thrilled!
Within two weeks she was smoking 2-3 packs a week and hiding it less and less. Now we both proudly smoke our favorite brand of cigarettes (Benson & Hedges Menthal) daily. I love smoking with my wife as it is a wonderful time to relax and talk by ourselves. I am so happy that I decided to quit hiding my habit as it has led to such mutual pleasure.
I got my wife hooked to!!
i've been smoking since i was ten years old my first drag was a benson&hedges menthol light. I knew right then I was a smoker for life!! When I met my wife she was totally anti smoking, in fact she almost left me because I would not quit. after our daughter was born she asked to try it one day, and thats all it took. she loves smoking virginia slims menthol 120s all day everyday. we go through 8 cartons every month and cant wait for the next one.
Vs menthol light 120's are a
Vs menthol light 120's are a great cigarette to introduce to a non smoker. Smooth, clean, and oh so sexy.
I agree. Oh so sexy
Try this on for size, if you dare. Increase yalls sexual pleasure. The next time yall do foreplay before sex, smoke a vsml 120 together. Share a cigarette. Inhale the cigarette smoke, then bring your lips close to each other. Blow and have her inhale, next have her do the same for you. Its great.
yes
i started then she was drunk and said lets try she loves it now
Pro Start Smoking
I love this board.. And I have over the years got at least 5 people to start smoking. Including getting my sister and best friend to start smoking. A non-smoker girl I work with has gone out with me twice in the last week and had a cigarette, after me telling her its a great way to de stress. Will see how it goes. It does feel good to help someone start smoking. I support this boards message fully!
i the same have been in
i the same have been in closet for years except my wife knows I do it . I have been frantically trying to get her to start . She will from time to time just to be doing it with me cause she knows i like to watch her smoke but she says she dont like it and dont want to smoke she just does it for me . Wish so badly she would give in and start smoking regulary but I fear she never will . It just makes me feel so good for her to smoke with because it just relaxes me and keeps me leveled out spending that time with her watching her smoke . Dont want to push to hard though . Afraid she will get angry with me pushing and stop all together . Any Help with this matter ?? Thx
Another Thought...
I gave this some additional thought. Hope this will help.
We all know how fantastic the first cigarette out of a pack can be, especially if it is your first cigarette of the day. I just opened a fresh pack this morning and smoked that first one a moment ago. It also happened to be my first cigarette today. Glorious. The other nineteen are excellent as well or I wouldn't continue to smoke but I admit that smoking the last one in a pack always has me excited about getting to open a fresh pack soon. Sometimes I get so excited about the prospects that I smoke two in a row just to get that first one from a fresh pack.
Question, when she does smoke with you, does she inhale? If she doesn't you are probably wasting your time hoping that she will one day become a regular smoker.
If she does inhale, perhaps the best thing that you could do is invite her out for a smoke one morning and give her a brand new pack of menthol cigarettes in a brand just for her? I know that several of the ladies that I smoke with at work like Virginia Slims. Only a couple of them smoke a non-Menthol brand. My wife smokes Benson & Hedges Menthol Luxury as I do.
If a fresh menthol cigarette doesn't have her craving more then it is probably a lost cause for you. My bet, she will enjoy it so much that she will have taken her first steps towards years of pleasure smoking with you.
Good Luck & Keep Us Posted
Not sure what kind she
Not sure what kind she occasionally smokes. Go buy her a pack of VS menthol lights 120's. NExt time she goes to smoke with you, give her the pack and ask her to try. Easy to get a woman started on these. Light, elegant, makes her feel sophistocated. Give it a shot
Thx
Well as for inhaling . She does inhale most of the cigarette when she smokes with me . i absolutly love smoking and cannot wait till i can have my next one . i smoke marlboro light 100's and when she does smoke i always keep a pack of marlboro light 100 menthols on hand for her because she prefers menthol when she does smoke . Reason I know this is because i always hand her both packs and she always grabs one out of the mentol pack . Been married for 12 years now and she has bought cigarettes at times . Before pregnancy she smoked very briefly 2 or 3 times a week a couple a night at the most and that was the happiest time i can remember sharing that with her . She smoked virginia slim ultra light menthols then . She quit for years and never did it again as far as I know . Last year i went to retrieve something from her car and in the top of her purse there was a fresh pack of marlboro light 100 menthols and a new lighter . Well she said they belonged to a freind and came up missing and i never saw the cigarettes again but the lighter is in the drawer over there in kitchen as we speak . So if she returned the cigs to friend why dittin she return her lighter also ?? it is just a special time for me to spend enjoying something i love so much with that someone i love so much ! i got her to step out to garage with one one morning quiet a while back but never has went for mornin smoke with me again . She goes to smoke with me often but dont partake alot of teh time . I hand her the cigarettes and she just puts them down without smoking . i dont mean to but i get agitated with her when she does that but i never tell her why i am agitated because i don t want to seem forceful if you know what i mean . I want her to do it because she wants to not because she feels like she has to . It is just very stressful for me her not enjoying smoking as i do but she did smoke one with me last night and we had an amazing husband and wife time after if you know what i mean :) and i was so leveled and at peace afterwards . I just wish she could see inside me to see just how special those moments are to me and sharing that pleasure with her . i just keep hoping and praying
I Wish That I Could Offer More...
I wanted my wife to smoke with me for years, too. As I said, she does now and truly enjoys it. She smokes with her boss at work and I can only imagine that this made the decision easier for her. Her boss is so pleased to have a smoking buddy that she stops by my wife's office on her way out a few times a day. It is always good to be one of the few stepping outside with the boss, even if it is only for a few minutes each day. Perhaps I was just lucky?
It sounds like you are doing all that you can reasonably do to get her to start smoking regularly with you. My advice, keep the Marlboro Menthol Lights 100's on hand and continue to invite her out when you go for your smoke. Don't let the pack get old though. If she hasn't smoked any in a few days then go ahead and smoke them yourself and buy her a new pack. As I said, that first one out of a fresh pack is always the best one. Try not to get agitated with her as that likely hurts her feelings. You want her to smoke because she enjoys it (and she will, you know that) and not because you want her to smoke.
My bet, the cigarette pack you found in her purse was indeed hers. I bet that if you had said nothing she would have smoked them all. It sounds like she is certainly attracted to the idea but is a little nervous about what others might think? Until she sees her way thru that, there is probably nothing that you can do other than continuing to smoke yourself. If she is not asking you to quit AND is having "Special Time" with you after a cigarette I think she will come around in her own time.
Gotta go, my wife just said she is going out for a smoke.
Good luck to the two of you and keep us posted.
Getting wife to smoke
Just show her what pleasure you get out of smoking, she will also start soon-it's just a matter of time.
Non-smoker wanting my girlfriend to smoke
Hello. I'm in a slightly different situation than most of you. I do not smoke but really want to see my gorgeous girlfriend smoke - even if she just does it every now and then. The issue is, she's somewhat anti-smoking and an athlete, so it seems nearly impossible that I could persuade her to try it. She has no idea about my smoking fetish yet. Perhaps telling her about that might spark her interest?
Non Smoker With Smoking Fetish
I understand how you feel. I will not date a woman who does not smoke because I have the same fetish. My babysitter got me started smoking when I was 9. She was just 15 at the time. I looked forward to the nights she watched me because we would smoke together. To this day, my parents don't know she is the one who got me started smoking. It was our secret. I'm 33 now and still very close friends with my childhood babysitter. I could never thank her enough for teaching me my bad but pleasurable habit. Tell your girlfriend that smoking isn't as bad as it is portrayed. She can still be healthy and a good athelete even if she smokes.
Well what grt stories,anyway
Well what grt stories,anyway i started smoking when i was 14,now turned 50 and back then smokers could smoke anywhere and i used to go to work with my dad and the women in the office was a smoker and well one day she noticed that i was inhaling her cig smoke while in the ashtray,so the next drag she took she blew smoke in my face and could tell that i was interested in trying one,so the next one she lit she offered it to me to try which at first i made excuses not to,but she said you want to, so try one,so i did,well not a great feeling to be honest but she then kept on making me smoke more of one until she new i was interested for sure.Well that lunch time she suggested that i meet her for lunch outside work,which she told me that i could have a whole cig and if liked it,she would help me to enjoy them if thats what i wanted,so i had to meet her cause by then i was getting excited that an older women wanted to help me start smoking and to be totally honest i am glad she did,cause life without smoking now would totally suck.
My smoking expeirence
I read some good stories of peoples lives involving smoking... Heres mine if your interested. I started sneaking my moms pall malls in 69 I was 6. I would go out to the back yard where I couldent be seen from the house, by myself and light them with a magnifying glass. (sorry for my spelling), They had no filter but they were more fun than getting yelled at. I liked the buzz I got before going back in the house and getting told what to do. It was always like that, clean the toys out from under your bed, make your bed, no you cant go out, and my freinds were always out playing in the neighbor hood. My older brother always seemed to get to go out but Me and my younger sister always had to stay home. My sister knew I snuck cigarettes and she thought it was fun being sneaky, but I never let her try it. it just seemed wrong. Hind sight is 20/20, but my neighbore obveosly had seen me in the yard. I didnt know it then, but found out soon enough. My mom and dad were going out for the weekend to Vegas and I was passed on to our neighbor Ms Layton. My sister was going to stay at Alexes house, another friend of the family. Dont know what Bob did. The neighbor came over and I was told just be good for the weekend and mind. K this is where it gets crazy for me and I have been smoking ever since... As we were walking next door before we got to her front door, she said she had to go to the corner store... So we got into her car and she drove to Express Lanes. From what I remember she said get somthing you want and meet me at the counter. This store was the size of a 7/11. I brought up a mounds candy bar and she looked at me with approval. I set it on the counter and she turnned to the clerk and said...I remember this fully.... Give me a pack of max 120 menthol... Then she looked back down and seemed to glare at me and said, No give me two packs. As we left the store she handed me the bag to carry to the car. I remember this clearly and my whole life has revolved around her and what she let me experiance with her. Im probably boaring some so if your interested in hearing more about this part of my life let me know...
"My smoking expeirence [sic]"
Yes, I'm interested, particularly in the details of your experience with this woman.
definitely interested
Awesome story hon. My post on here with my first 120 is with the woman I met at a Louisiana fair. Would love to here more
love the story
My first 120 menthol was at a fair in Louisiana.I was already a four year smoker of Virginia Slims menthol lights 100 at the time.Then the 120s came out when I was 14, but hadnt tried one yet. I saw a lady pull out a pack of VSML 120s and light up. I walked up and asked if I could try her sexy little cigarette.We walked off and smoked together. I still love my VSML 120s to this very day. Would like to hear more about you and Miss layton
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